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    coming out party finally hits australia. although they didn't think i am that funny. this, from the country whose biggest comedic achievement is crocodile dundee. screw them!
    "hooking up in the real world," hosted by coral and myself. it ended up pretty good.
    "coming out" stories told by comedians and writers. not a comedy show, per se, but is often funny.

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    odd... "bugaron" was always used in Puerto Rico and the Dominican Republic for the male hustlers from what I recall of my frequent sexploitation visits in the late 90's. Not that I indulged in any of that!


    I am going to try rubbing my belly. See what I get.

    This Latino sounds more like a trick than a long-term treat. Why lose sleep?

    Carrie Jo

    I will be eagerly awaiting the rest of the story. Very interesting!

    Chad A

    Maybe he's only recently 'come out'?

    Never know until you probe...

    hehe - probe...


    Ooooh, you're totally Harriet The Spy. ;)


    Oh Dan, this is so interesting. Please keep "schooling" me on this stuff, I want to know. BTW- Either the wife totally doesn't know or she just suspects but can't face it. It depends on the kinds of chances he takes and how often, ya know?

    I completely see why you are suspicious of him. You are a man with lots of life experience. Listen to your gut hunny.


    Maybe he's just pretending to be straight - sometimes i get off on acting like i am with a woman, and i like making the guy think i am really straight, even though i'm not - it seems to be a turn on for them and I feel sexier than ever. Everybody wins...


    came across your blog via Rotten Ryan...on the subject of Mr. M - I married a gay man. It happens - all the time. I should have listened to my Mom when she said, "He's nice, but you know you're marrying a gay man, don't you?" I was under 30 - didn't listen to a word she said. When I suspected he was cheating - it STILL didn't occur to me he was cheating on me with men. That's when my Mom said, "You know he's sleeping with men, right?" I'm 38, divorced and sleeping with a guy 13 years younger than me - I listen to EVERYTHING Mom says now.


    More please!


    i really liked this entry. i think maricon literally means "fruity", i could be wrong..keep up the great entries

    Diamond Stud

    Hi Dan.

    You know Ning personally as a friend/acquaintance or you know of her?

    This is intriguing. Do tell more.

    And yes, I always describe her as the Malaysian Madonna to foreign friends and contacts.


    i love this. it's so soft-core.

    you should star in a telenovella.


    It's entirely possible that he's gay and divorced. I am, and I have generally found that men who are or were married are superior kissers. And I have been told, numerous times and with great appreciation, that I make love to a man as if I'm making love to a woman.


    How old is Mr. M?

    Well, if he's not telling you he's married, he'd probably also lie about his age.

    I suppose it's possible he's not married, but living with parents?


    All cultures have their 'butch' words and their 'fem' words - I know in Japanese it's seme and uke.

    First time I've commented here, I really like your writing style.



    I think it's great that you have fun with these good looking guys. No problem with that. However, you do need to start finding some guys who know English. It couldn't be any fun watching your favorite shows with them. Also, you can't share your great humor. Great sex is good for now. For long term, at least find guys who know English.

    Glenn C.

    I am confused is this a different married guy then the one you wrote about a week ago??? Inquiring minds want to know.

    Coy I have a word for them. I usually just used the quotation mark gesture when I said, "straight". lol


    Blame Latin (the language). All of our clinical words have Latin roots. It's also the language of academia and ideas (look for words with three or more syllables).

    It's English's Anglo-Saxon roots that gave us all the great words like fuck, shit, piss, come, groan, etc. So, thank you Anglos and Saxons, for keeping it brief.


    So what the hell happened? I've dated many married men. Love them. Hate them. Keep them ... for short while at least.

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